Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Estranged husband shoots wife dead

Wednesday, 17 December 2008

Estranged husband shoots wife dead

A woman who was shot dead by her estranged husband in Sydney's south-west yesterday had taken out an apprehended violence order against him, police said.

Just after 4pm yesterday, John Kudrytch, 39, walked into the BP service station on the Hume Highway at Casula and shot his wife, Melissa Cook, 29, who was working there.

Police arrived shortly after and conducted CPR on the victim until paramedics arrived.

Ms Cook, who had been hit in the chest, was taken to Liverpool Hospital in a critical condition but died a short time later after emergency surgery.

Four hours later police found Kudrytch dead inside the couple's former home on Pine Road, just one kilometre down the road from the service station, where he lived.

Police say it appears that he shot himself.

Police have confirmed that Ms Cook had taken out an apprehended violence order against her estranged husband, from whom she was separated and was in the process of divorcing.

A spokesman last night said "domestic violence issues" had come to the attention of police in the past.

It is not yet known when the AVO was granted or what conditions it stipulated.

The murder-suicide was the result of a domestic dispute, police said.

Kudrytch's neighbour Carina Olivos said Ms Cook and Kudrytch had been together for seven or eight years and moved in together three years ago.

Ms Olivos said Ms Cook had told her recently of the couple's separation, saying she was "free" and didn't want anything from Kudrytch, just the chance to "start a new life".

Mother, son killed

Mother, son killed; teen wounded

Man charged in what police say is homicide related to domestic violence

By April Bethea
abethea@charlotteobserver.com
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Scott E. Davis Sr.

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  • The Domestic Violence Advisory Council will march at 12:15p.m. Thursday to honor Elizabeth Michelle Elder, Gabrielle Kinard and Roschelle Woyee, victims of what Charlotte-Mecklenburg police said are domestic-violence-related homicides.

    The council traditionally holds marches on the Thursday after a death believed to be related to domestic violence. Thursday's will be different, as participants will meet at the Square at Trade and Tryon streets uptown then walk to police headquarters on Trade. There, ribbons will be placed on a memorial tree honoring domestic-violence-homicide victims from across the state. The tree will be on display through year's end.

    For help, call the domestic violence hot line at 704-332-2513; for domestic violence programs and treatment, call the Mecklenburg County Women's Commission at 704-336-3210.

Police say the 18-year-old son of a woman who was shot and killed Sunday in a domestic-violence-related homicide died this morning of wounds from the shooting.

A Charlotte man has been charged with murder of the teen's mother, Gabrille Kinard, 38.

There is no word yet from police if additional murder charges will be filed in the death of Anjelo Kinard, who died this morning at Carolinas Medical Center.

Anjelo Kinard's sister was shot as she tried to flee, with her 5-month-old sister in her arms.

The case marked the 10th and 11th domestic-violence-related homicides in Mecklenburg County this year, police said -- and the fourth case in two weeks. That exceeds last year's total by one, and Mike Sexton, who has worked with the Mecklenburg County Women's Commission for several years, said he's never seen four cases happen in such a short period.

“We can try to find blame with the economy, or because of the holidays and the stress and gaps in the system,” said Sexton, the incoming chair of the Domestic Violence Advocacy Council, “but ultimately it's the guys, the abusers, the batterers … that are doing the damage.”

On Sunday, police arrested Scott E. Davis Sr. and charged him with one count of murder and three counts of attempted murder in connection to the death of Gabrielle Kinard, 38, and the shootings of Anjelo and Gabriella Kinard.

A friend of Gabrielle Kinard said Davis was her boyfriend and the 5-month-old infant's father.

Police said they received a call at 11:45 p.m. Saturday reporting a domestic disturbance at a home on Thornwood Road in the Hidden Valley neighborhood in north Charlotte. When officers arrived, they found Gabrielle Kinard on the front yard of the residence. She was pronounced dead on the scene.

Anjelo Kinard, 18, was found injured inside the home. Gabriella Kinard, 15, was released from the hospital earlier in the day with what police described as minor injuries.

The Domestic Violence Advocacy Council plans to honor Gabrille Kinard at a march on Thursday. The council had already planned a march for that day in honor of Elizabeth Michelle Elder and Roschelle Woyee, who police say were shot and killed by their boyfriends recently in separate incidents.

The advocacy council holds marches the Thursday after deaths believed to be related to domestic violence to help raise awareness about counseling and education programs.

Sexton said it is important for people who may be in abusive situations to seek help, including creating a safety plan to get out of a dangerous situation, such as going to a family member's house or a church.

Sexton said having such a plan is especially important when someone is trying to end a relationship. He said about 80-85 percent of domestic-violence-related homicides occur when someone is trying to get out of the relationship.

He said domestic violence often is about power. “Homicides are often the ultimate act of control, whether it's the victim themselves or killing their children, or both,” Sexton said.

Bernadine Rankin, who described herself as a long-time friend of Gabrielle Kinard, said Kinard was a bus driver for the Charlotte Area Transit System. The two met about eight or nine years ago on the job and became close because both were single mothers.

Kinard had just moved into the one-story home in the Hidden Valley neighborhood in recent months, Rankin said.

Rankin said she spent more than an hour talking with her friend Tuesday. She said Kinard was upset because Davis was not supporting the family the way he should have.

“I just talked to her,” Rankin said while standing outside Kinard's home on Sunday, “and she's not here (anymore).”

Rankin said family was very important to Kinard, especially her children. She said Kinard had just lost her mother a few months ago.

Rankin said her own mother died on a Dec. 13, the same day as her friend Gabrielle.

“She was working too hard to make ends meet,” Kinard said. “She didn't deserve this. All he had to do was leave.”

Staff writer Steve Lyttle and news researcher Brooke Cain contributed.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Stop Government Corruption in Family Court and CPS


Family Court and CPS are money making machines. Ex abusive men seeking more time with children and promoting what appears to be the most noble cause, has entrenched the rights of mothers and children in their ability to seek safety from violence. Heads have been quoted in the media for stating that "family violence is our core business". The propaganda that is spread about the voices of children and their access to justice promotes the profitability in manufacturing child abuse and domestic violence. They can do something about it, but it is not within their best economical advantage to do so. This will continue until something is done. Which requires at least 1,000 signatures to get this ball rolling!
Please sign for ALL battered women that have lost custody in some form to their ex abusers!

http://www.thepetitionsite.com/4/stop-government-corruption-in-family-court-and-cps


Wednesday, November 12, 2008

We Are Lions

Holly Collins can only be described as a "Lion" and she is my hero and the hero of many other mothers out here! She was able to protect herself and her children from her abuser. One of the saddest parts of Holly Collins story is that she is NOT alone! Women are being "stalked" in Family Court by their abusers and it's in part to blamed in the name of government funding called "Responsible Fatherhood Initiatives".

Literally thousands of mothers nationwide have lost custody to their abuser, in fact “the studies are showing” that up to 2/3 of accused or adjudicated batterers receive joint or sole custody in court. Joan Meier, Esq. http://www.stopfamilyviolence.org

We are a group of mothers that have joined together online in a "Sisterhood" of sharing or losing custody to our ex abuser's. We have blogged, put up websites, signed petitions, joined other groups and we keep trying to receive justice, not only in our own cases but for each other and future mothers.

Here are just 'some' of the nightmares our group has faced:

A mother loses custody to her ex abuser, an illegal immigrant who is facing deportation. How did this happen? Well, a Judge decided in another state that since the child had been visiting the father all summer that was his jurisdiction and overruled what the other state had decided, sole custody of the mother.
This is common ploy of these men to get some substantial "visitation" with the child(ren) and then claim abandonment, residency etc. This NEVER works the other way around for the non abusing parent, which is usually a woman.

Another mother has sole custody, leaves the state (legally), goes to a domestic violence shelter and the ex abuser/father claims "parental kidnapping". Another tactic used by abusers to "force" you to have to be in close proximity to keep trying to "control" you by way of 'forced' visitations of the children. This mother's children reside now in another state than her with her ex abuser. In fact, the ex abuser doesn't even live or care for the children, they reside with HIS parents.

Another mother had her signature forged on a court stipulation that gave her ex abuser "50/50" custody and ALL back child support dropped. One of the biggest reasons why the father wants "joint" custody is because of his child support obligation will be less or nil. The Family Court refused to look at the forgery evidence, the DA refused to file charges and the abuser gained more and more custody. This was even after the father was arrested for his second DUI in less than a year but this time he had the 7yr old child as his passenger. Not even CPS thought that was child abuse or neglect. A CPS worker told the mother that "just because he drove drunk with his child didn't make him a bad father, he made a bad choice". The same father had child sexual abuse allegations against him substantiated but it was reversed by the Family Court Judge that recused himself from the case previously.

The case of a mother who tries to protect her children from sexual abuse by the father and the mother gets supervised visits. That's called PAS, Parental Alienation Syndrome, a common label most of us mothers live with. It's junk "science" that was created by Richard Gardner.
http://www.ipce.info/library_3/files/pasyndrome.htm

The mother who was beaten to a pulp by her husband and the children witnessed it. They arrested the abuser and ordered him to stay away from the wife and children. Two days after the abuse CPS and the police came and took the children away from the mother because SHE had allowed them to see her being abused and had "endangered" them. With bruises on her face and cuts still healing she had to relinquish her children. She got supervised visits, to this day the abuser has sole custody.

Then the most horrific of the stories is one of Elsa Newman.
Elsa Newman is a 54-year-old mother, unjustly imprisoned in Maryland Correctional Institution for Women at Jessup. She was charged with a crime committed by another person, family friend Margery Landry, who broke into the house of Newman's estranged husband, Arlen Slobodow, on a night when he had the couple's children for a visit. What she found there seems to have been a case of abuse in progress. Please see this article for more information: http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/259162.

If you want more stories, we have them! Our Constitutional rights have been stomped all over by way of ex parte hearings and communications, falsifying court documents and the most horrendous fact that the Federal government funds in the name of "Responsible Fatherhood" are available to give our abusers an edge in court and counties more money.
The injustices that faces our group of mothers, Holly Collins and many others must be stopped. We have been ignored, chastised and been abused all over again by the agencies and governments that are in place to "protect" women and children from abuse and their abusers. Enough is enough and we are NOT going to take it anymore!
We need help to expose ALL of the corruption that exists in Family Courts.


The Mothers of:

Momentum Of Mothers M.O.M.

http://rights4mothers.org
http://justice4mothers.wordpress.com/justice-4-mothers/
http://www.randijames.com/
http://www.myspace.com/fightcps4victimsrights
http://www.stopfamilyviolence.org/ocean/host.php?page=0
http://elsanewmanisinnocent.blogspot.com/2008/09/this-woman-is-elsa-newman-why-why-why.html

http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/Free-Elsa-Newman