Showing posts with label battered women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label battered women. Show all posts

Monday, April 6, 2009

Another

Father drugged then killed his two children during divorce

Security guard Brian Philcox drugged his two children before killing them and himself on Father's Day after leaving explosive devices designed to injure their mother who was divorcing him.

Amy and Owen Philcox: Father drugged then killed his two children during divorce
Amy and Owen Philcox: Philcox used chloroform and a sleeping drug to sedate the children before connecting a vacuum hose to the vehicle's exhaust to kill them all Photo: PA

Brian Philcox, 53, sat hand-in-hand with his daughter Amy, seven, and son Owen, three, in the back seat of his Land Rover as it filled with fumes.

He had left a letter for their mother addressed to "The Bitch" which was designed to detonate fireworks when opened and cause burns to anyone nearby.

The children had been happy at the thought of spending the weekend with him and were carrying home-made Father's Day cards for him.

Philcox, a karate expert, executed his plan to die with the children after becoming "stressed and depressed" through the estrangement with his wife Lyn.

Two crude but viable home-made explosive devices were meant to be found by her, an inquest in Llandudno was told. The one with the letter was left glued to the kitchen worktop at his home in Runcorn, Cheshire.

Philcox used chloroform and a sleeping drug to sedate the children before connecting a vacuum hose to the vehicle's exhaust to kill them all at a North Wales beauty spot.

The inquest in Llandudno found that he unlawfully killed the children and took his own life last June after parking at a remote spot near the village of Maenan in the Snowdonia national park.

After the hearing, the children's mother Lyn McAuliffe, 38, described him as "a cold blooded, pre-meditated killer".

She added: "I will never forgive him for taking the beautiful lives of Amy and Owen."

Philcox had picked the children up from near their mother's home in Runcorn for an access visit during the divorce proceedings.

He failed to return them as agreed on the Saturday night and sent her a series of texts, one which read: "There is nothing I can do. It is out of my control. I am sorry."

Miss McAuliffe told the inquest she thought he had been talking about the car and could never imagine him harming the children.

John Gittins, coroner for north-east Wales, said he was confident Amy and Owen would simply not have known what was happening and would not have suffered.

He told Miss McAuliffe: "When he took Amy and Owen from you, I am sure that his intention was that they would be lost to you for ever.

"But he failed because their lives are imprinted on your heart. They will endure and be part of your for every single moment of the rest of your life."

The couple married in 2000 but his relationship with her son Ryan, then ten, was "bad from the word go".

She said Philcox stopped him from going out with his friends, resented Ryan's presence in the house and things became worse after their children were born.

When the marriage broke down she went to live with her mother, taking the children with her, and started divorce proceedings on the grounds of his unreasonable behaviour.

Philcox once took the children away for three or four days without agreement and the couple had to go to court to arrange agreed access.

On the night of the deaths, she received a text message instructing her to go to his house and find a note. Her sister went and found a note glued to the kitchen work surface addressed to "The Bitch".

Miss McAuliffe opened it herself and found only blank sheets of paper. But police who searched the house later found a home made explosive device in the cupboard underneath.

Experts confirmed that the ripping of the glued note was meant to trigger the device which would have resulted in burns to anyone nearby.

Police also found a similar device under the kitchen table and Lyn's son Ryan was sent a third device which arrived in the post on the Monday morning.

Miss McAuliffe said: "Since Amy and Owen died my life has been a constant nightmare. I feel I cannot cope - I just exist.

"Christmas was particularly hard and recently both Amy and Owen would have celebrated their eighth and fourth birthdays.

"It is the little things I miss about them like lying in bed reading bedtime stories - putting on different voices representing the characters in the book. They loved that."

She said Amy was "very artistic" and loved painting mermaids and butterflies while Owen liked Thomas the Tank Engine and chasing people around the house with his toy dinosaurs.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Color Me Sick


THERE IS A GROUP THAT IS HANDING OUT COLORING BOOKS FOR CHILDREN FOR SENSITIVE SUBJECTS AS DIVORCE, EATING HEALTHY AND THE ALL IMPORTANT, “PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME”….IT’S NOT JUST SICK IT’S WRONG…THE DESCRIPTION:

I WONDER

“Taryn is a little girl whose parents are divorced. Lately, she has been hearing some very confusing things. With no one to talk to, Taryn turns to her closest friend, Noodle. Read how Noodle answers Taryn’s questions and provides comfort. This coloring and activity book deals with the sensitive topic of Parental Alienation.”

THEY OFFER THE CHOICE OF EITHER DIRECTED FOR “TARGET MOTHER” “TARGET FATHER”

TARGET IS THE PERFECT WORD TO DESCRIBE THE PRODUCT BECAUSE THAT’S WHAT PAS DOES. IT TAKES ITS PSEUDO-SCIENTIFIC THEORY AND TARGETS PARENTS, MORE MOTHERS THAN FATHERS.

I AM THINKING OF BUYING “THE VISIT” WHERE:
“What is it like to visit a jail? What are some things you might see inside a jail? See how Tyler, a little boy who is about to visit his father in jail for the first time, finds out. Was he scared? You bet he was, but as Tyler learns just how scary jail can be, seeing the one you love can make all those scary feelings melt away. Available in English and Spanish”

VISITING DAD IN JAIL FOR THE FIRST TIME…REST ASSURED TYLER…DADDY WILL PROBABLY BE IN THERE AGAIN.

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Ann Coulter.....never heard of her until now

And really wish I hadn't of



The View Co-Hosts Verbally Smack Down Ann Coulter

Ann Coulter was on The View today, of which four of the five co-hosts are single mothers, a role that Coulter criticizes in her new book Guilty. As you can imagine, it wasn't pretty.

Whoopi — who, as you'll remember, threatened to beat up Coulter last week — referred to Coulter's left-hating persona as "an act," and went on to tell her that she was personally offended by Coulter's sentiments about single mothers in Hollywood. Sherri actually sounded like the most even-toned, well spoken woman of the bunch when she asked Coulter if she has an compassion and ever does anything to correct the "problems" she identifies (like talking to young girls about the importance of birth control), instead of just judging all the time. But instead, Ann wanted to complain that she was "attacked" in an earlier segment before she was on camera, alleging that Barbara read aloud from her book as though it were Mein Kampf. Ironic, since she's always going on about "victimization." Sherri put her back in her place, though, when she told her she didn't like how she was speaking to Babs. Joy's face during the entire thing, btw, was great.

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Mother, son killed

Mother, son killed; teen wounded

Man charged in what police say is homicide related to domestic violence

By April Bethea
abethea@charlotteobserver.com
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Scott E. Davis Sr.

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  • The Domestic Violence Advisory Council will march at 12:15p.m. Thursday to honor Elizabeth Michelle Elder, Gabrielle Kinard and Roschelle Woyee, victims of what Charlotte-Mecklenburg police said are domestic-violence-related homicides.

    The council traditionally holds marches on the Thursday after a death believed to be related to domestic violence. Thursday's will be different, as participants will meet at the Square at Trade and Tryon streets uptown then walk to police headquarters on Trade. There, ribbons will be placed on a memorial tree honoring domestic-violence-homicide victims from across the state. The tree will be on display through year's end.

    For help, call the domestic violence hot line at 704-332-2513; for domestic violence programs and treatment, call the Mecklenburg County Women's Commission at 704-336-3210.

Police say the 18-year-old son of a woman who was shot and killed Sunday in a domestic-violence-related homicide died this morning of wounds from the shooting.

A Charlotte man has been charged with murder of the teen's mother, Gabrille Kinard, 38.

There is no word yet from police if additional murder charges will be filed in the death of Anjelo Kinard, who died this morning at Carolinas Medical Center.

Anjelo Kinard's sister was shot as she tried to flee, with her 5-month-old sister in her arms.

The case marked the 10th and 11th domestic-violence-related homicides in Mecklenburg County this year, police said -- and the fourth case in two weeks. That exceeds last year's total by one, and Mike Sexton, who has worked with the Mecklenburg County Women's Commission for several years, said he's never seen four cases happen in such a short period.

“We can try to find blame with the economy, or because of the holidays and the stress and gaps in the system,” said Sexton, the incoming chair of the Domestic Violence Advocacy Council, “but ultimately it's the guys, the abusers, the batterers … that are doing the damage.”

On Sunday, police arrested Scott E. Davis Sr. and charged him with one count of murder and three counts of attempted murder in connection to the death of Gabrielle Kinard, 38, and the shootings of Anjelo and Gabriella Kinard.

A friend of Gabrielle Kinard said Davis was her boyfriend and the 5-month-old infant's father.

Police said they received a call at 11:45 p.m. Saturday reporting a domestic disturbance at a home on Thornwood Road in the Hidden Valley neighborhood in north Charlotte. When officers arrived, they found Gabrielle Kinard on the front yard of the residence. She was pronounced dead on the scene.

Anjelo Kinard, 18, was found injured inside the home. Gabriella Kinard, 15, was released from the hospital earlier in the day with what police described as minor injuries.

The Domestic Violence Advocacy Council plans to honor Gabrille Kinard at a march on Thursday. The council had already planned a march for that day in honor of Elizabeth Michelle Elder and Roschelle Woyee, who police say were shot and killed by their boyfriends recently in separate incidents.

The advocacy council holds marches the Thursday after deaths believed to be related to domestic violence to help raise awareness about counseling and education programs.

Sexton said it is important for people who may be in abusive situations to seek help, including creating a safety plan to get out of a dangerous situation, such as going to a family member's house or a church.

Sexton said having such a plan is especially important when someone is trying to end a relationship. He said about 80-85 percent of domestic-violence-related homicides occur when someone is trying to get out of the relationship.

He said domestic violence often is about power. “Homicides are often the ultimate act of control, whether it's the victim themselves or killing their children, or both,” Sexton said.

Bernadine Rankin, who described herself as a long-time friend of Gabrielle Kinard, said Kinard was a bus driver for the Charlotte Area Transit System. The two met about eight or nine years ago on the job and became close because both were single mothers.

Kinard had just moved into the one-story home in the Hidden Valley neighborhood in recent months, Rankin said.

Rankin said she spent more than an hour talking with her friend Tuesday. She said Kinard was upset because Davis was not supporting the family the way he should have.

“I just talked to her,” Rankin said while standing outside Kinard's home on Sunday, “and she's not here (anymore).”

Rankin said family was very important to Kinard, especially her children. She said Kinard had just lost her mother a few months ago.

Rankin said her own mother died on a Dec. 13, the same day as her friend Gabrielle.

“She was working too hard to make ends meet,” Kinard said. “She didn't deserve this. All he had to do was leave.”

Staff writer Steve Lyttle and news researcher Brooke Cain contributed.